03 June, 2004
11:34 PM
i've fallen sick! gosh, din expect myself to fall so easily...
I have a friend, Dawn, who's also my hockey team-mate and coach. Her father jus passed away this early this week. When i went to visit her at the wake, she looked so sunken. I learnt from the 'adult' conversation that her dad had been suffering for 2.5 years from lots of other illnesses before he died of heart attack. I asked her how she and her family were doing, and she told me they may seem ok in the day infront of friends and stuff, but when they get back to their home, it hurts alot because almost everything thing in there reminds them of their father and husband. Sighs...
Losing a loved one is so painful, but yet inevitable. However, i feel that before they leave, we should do wat we can to make their lives more meaningful...i dunno, i guess that's just the way i see it - Treasure the person before he's gone.
Inspiring Words
"The greatest pleasure I know is to do a good action by stealth, and to have it found out by accident."
- Charles Lamb (1775-1834)
"It's true, some wines improve with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place."
- Abigail Van Buren
"Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds."
- Hugh Elliott
"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself."
- Oscar Wilde
"The best thing about pain, it tells you you're not dead yet."
- the movie G.I. Jane
"Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need."
- Kahlil Gibran
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in
you."
- Dale Carnegie
"Praising what is lost makes the remembrance dear."
- William Shakespeare